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Finding yourself in that uncomfortable place when a man pulls away after you have what you believed was a breakthrough moment? Been there. It took me years to figure out why men pull away and even though I understand it now, I can’t say I like it very much.

So why do men pull away?

The answer to that can vary, but ultimately…they kinda freak out. In that moment when you feel like you two have gotten a little closer and all you want is to be even closer, they start to panic. They get scared and they don’t know how to handle their own feelings so they do the only thing they can think of…disappear.

Their disappearance allows them to calm down, reflect, regenerate their masculinity (which strangely decreases when we get close – their testosterone levels actually decrease due to chemicals that ...

Are you having one of those days? You know the kind that send you to Google and makes you type in a silly phrase like “I don’t Understand Men”, naively hoping that an actual solution to your problem will magically appear?

Well, guess what? If you’re reading this – it did. I know…it’s hard to believe, right? Try to contain your excitement.

I know you don’t believe me, yet. Why should you? If you’re like me you’ve spent most of your life dealing with this issue and wondering if understanding how men think is even possible and no matter where you turn, you just don’t get any help and you’re left feeling confused, hurt, annoyed…close to murder.

Okay, maybe not murder…although I suppose it depends on what he did. But we’re all sweet angels here, it’s THE MEN who are the problem. Right?

First, I...