Category Broken Heart

You’re going to call me crazy in a moment when I tell you what men love in a relationship. Why? Because you won’t believe me. It’s too simple and there’s just no possible way that it can be true. Or can it?

So what is it? What is it that men love in a relationship? What is it that they want?

The answer: The same thing you do.

Did you call me crazy yet?

So let’s go a little deeper into what that means. What is the same thing we want that they might possibly want too?

– To Feel Safe
– To Feel Loved
– To Feel Supported
– Freedom and Space to Be HIM
– To Feel Needed
– To Feel Desired and Appreciated
– Someone Fun, Happy and Easy to Be With

If you think that is a pretty simplified list, I want you to read through it again...

I was reading a story recently of a woman who was basically an invalid until the Pearl Harbor strike. It took that horrific event for her to get out of her bed and stop wasting her life. Up until that day she had spent more than a year in bed with a “bad heart.” She spent 22 out of every 24 hours in bed and claims, “I would never have really lived again if the Japanese had not struck Pearl Harbor and jarred me out of my complacency.”

The part that really disturbs me is when she says, “The attack on Pearl Harbor was one of the greatest tragedies in American history, but as far as I was concerned, it was one of the best things that ever happened to me.”

One of the best things that ever happened to her? Really?

I can understand her comment only in the sense that it changed her life for ...