Are you having one of those days? You know the kind that send you to Google and makes you type in a silly phrase like “I don’t Understand Men”, naively hoping that an actual solution to your problem will magically appear?
Well, guess what? If you’re reading this – it did. I know…it’s hard to believe, right? Try to contain your excitement.
I know you don’t believe me, yet. Why should you? If you’re like me you’ve spent most of your life dealing with this issue and wondering if understanding how men think is even possible and no matter where you turn, you just don’t get any help and you’re left feeling confused, hurt, annoyed…close to murder.
Okay, maybe not murder…although I suppose it depends on what he did. But we’re all sweet angels here, it’s THE MEN who are the problem. Right?
First, I’m going to have to ask you to stifle your anger and frustration and believe me when I tell you, they aren’t the enemy. They actually do make some sense, and you know what I’ve learned?
They Are Just Like Us! – In what we want and need in life anyway, maybe not how we go about it or deal with it. But the “go about it and deal with it” stuff is what you’re about to get a better understanding of so that you can finally, yes finally, understand how men think.
Where did I learn this you ask? Who is my source and why am I all of a sudden so sure that I’ve “cracked the code” to understanding men?
Well, if you must know my source is this awesome guy named Carlos Cavallo. And before you poo poo the fact that he’s a “relationship” coach and whatnot. Let me tell you something, this guy KNOWS HIS STUFF.
I was amazed. And after listening to his program Irresistible Desire (don’t let the name fool you either – I know it sounds cheesy and salesy and there’s NO WAY it can actually have any redeeming quality to it, but trust me it does), I came away from it knowing all of the answers to my questions.
Questions like:
– Why does he pull away?
– What does it mean when a guy ignores you?
– Why doesn’t he understand me?
– What should I do now?
_ How can I get my Ex back?
– Does he really like me?
– Is he using me?
– Am I too needy?
– Why does he disappear?
– Should I call/text him?
– Should I ask him out?
– Why don’t guys ask me out?
– How can I get him to do the things I need him to do?
– How can we stop fighting?
– Why can’t he communicate better?
– Why does he insist on doing the things that BOTHER me?
– Why does be make me nag instead of just doing what I asked?
– Is the relationship worth saving?
– What Is Going On In His Mind?!
Those are just a FEW of the questions we women have, right? Well, Irresistible Desire and his other program that I also highly recommend Forever Yours answer these and then some.
If you finish his program and still have a question you can ask Carlos directly. That wasn’t necessary for me though, his programs were extremely thorough and I got all the answers I needed and knew exactly what to do after I finished them. I still listen to them to refresh my memory sometimes because even though we do want the same things, sometimes thinking backwards is hard to remember. I’ll give you an example of what I mean.
What To Do When a Man Is Ignoring You
To answer the question of, “Why does he disappear…and should I call/text him?”
I discovered that while it’s a woman’s tendency to want to talk about things and or discuss even how a date went…we need the reassurance of a phone call or something otherwise we are left…wondering and becoming anxious.
A guy, on the other hand, needs the distance. They need the space and they need to know that you respect them enough that you’ll allow them to contact you. If they never contact you, well…you have your answer. If you can have patience and give them space…they’ll come back when they are ready. It may seem like you’re ignoring a guy, but trust me…to them, it’s a beautiful silence.
Simple. Easy. Right? Yeah….sure. It isn’t easy, it is very hard for us actually, but knowing that the dynamics in the relationship NEED to be this way for men means that you won’t end up making the mistakes you tend to typically make, because it is OUR instinct to do the opposite.
Obviously, I’m not going to address everything here. Why reinvent the wheel when Carlos has already done a better job than I could ever do? I simply wanted to point you in the direction of an outstanding resource that I highly, and I mean HIGHLY recommend if you are having any problems trying to understand men.
And believe me when I say that these programs can help you regardless of what your relationship status is. Even if you’ve been with someone for YEARS, knowing this information can help you to have an even better relationship.
Please come back and leave me a comment and let me know what you thought of Irresistible Desire!
If you’ve ever wanted to feel more in control in a relationship (including your own emotions), if you are currently trying to find that special someone, or are with someone and they are leaving you confused and/or hurt a lot of the time…try it. I really think it can help you too!
~ Read My Full Review of Irresistible Desire Here ~
Your Friend,
Kat
NurturingYourBody.com
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