Category Soul

The Importance of a Positive Attitude – Smile!!

People are so funny. They’ll go to school and learn from books for practical things, “educational” things they would call it. But trying to improve on yourself? Reading books…to learn how to improve yourself? Oh no…they’ll steer clear of that most of their lives. Why?

Possibly because (and I’m speaking from my own past/personal experience here) it would show a sign of weakness? That they need to improve themselves? No way, those self-help aisles are for crazy people or losers.

Again, why?

If you’ve ever gone down one of those aisles (or found things online) and/or picked up some of the books I think you’d be amazed at the wealth of knowledge there...

Did you make another mistake? Have you blown it for good this time?

How should I know? What did you do, exactly?

(If you seriously feel like answering that, contact me here)

But really, the thing about women is this…we (most of us anyway) are FORGIVING.

That is, if you actually make an effort and apologize for what you did. That apology can be in word form, or in the form of gifts or simply making it up to us…if there was something you forgot to do or you messed up a planned date or something.

Honestly, if your girl has gone cold on you and you don’t know what to do, the best advice I can give you is: Do The Opposite of What You Feel Like Doing.

I say that because more often than not your instinct is to do nothing. You don’t know how to approach her, she frankly scares you at the moment...