After reading The 5 Love Languages and discovering that receiving gifts was at the bottom of my list, it got me thinking about gift giving.
I’ve always liked gifts, and I love giving them. But discovering that they aren’t “how I feel loved” made me really examine why. I’ve always loved surprising people, loved giving them gifts. Not simply for their birthday or the holidays. Those times can be rather obnoxious because you feel so pressured, you HAVE to get them something. I don’t like that. Yes, the holidays are a time of giving and love and that’s all fine and dandy, but it becomes very stale when you get someone something just for the sake of getting them something.
So what I figured out after thinking about this only a moment is that it isn’t that I don’t like to receive gifts, it’s tha...
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